Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics Program
Carlos Xuma social skills program


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"Would You Like to Avoid People's Games, Connect More Authentically With Others, and Get the Social Life You've Always Wanted...?"

If you've ever wanted to transform yourself from shy and socially awkward into an amazing social leader, you're about to learn information that will absolutely change your life...


CARLOS XUMA'S DESK: Friday, 5:43 PM.

The one skill that they don't teach you about in school is also the one that will either make you a great success in life, or struggle like crazy to realize your dreams... and you might never reach them.

I'm going to tell you all about this skill in a second, but first let me ask you a couple questions:

    • Have you ever been in a social situation where you just knew someone was messing with you, but you didn't know what to do about it?

    • Have you ever had someone in your family that just knew exactly how to put you on the spot - and they'd leave you with that shaky, angry feeling because you knew you'd been made a fool out of?

    • Have you ever known a person who could just predict everything you were going to say, and leave you with no ammo at all, and you felt like you were totally manipulated? And FRUSTRATED?

    • Did you ever suspect there are unwritten "rules" to socializing that you just don't "get"? That if you just knew the "rules" that these people are using for their games, you could at least be on a level playing field?

    • Do you ever feel like you've missed opportunities with somebody - maybe a romantic interest - because you don't have the right skills to respond correctly and make the interaction "count" for more?

    • Do you often feel like you're missing a depth and a level of relationship connection that you want to achieve because you don't understand how to get past your partner's games?

Now, on the other hand, have you ever been with someone who:

  • Could de-fuse any confrontation and make friends in the process?

  • Could spot when they were being played or manipulated - and somehow turn it back around on the other person?

  • Always knew the right thing to say to put someone in their place?

  • Knew how to read a social situation in just a few seconds and "feel out" everyone in the group?

 

group of people I always wanted to be that person.

I was so shy growing up that I never really got an understanding of social dynamics the way some people seemed to. They always seemed so natural with it, too, which made it even harder to believe that I'd ever figure it out.

A long while back, I remember going to a singles party where everyone was really uptight and hard to talk to. I felt a little uncomfortable because it felt like they weren't really there to meet people and have fun.

You might recognize some of the clues I saw of weird "gamey" behavior at this party:

  • A lot of the guys were very aggressive and insecure...

  • Many of the women seemed guarded and distant - and I found myself suckered into buying drinks - without getting any phone numbers...

  • A lot of people seemed to push emotional buttons on me like I was a remote control...

  • Almost no one there seemed like they were there to have a good time... they all seemed to have an agenda.

You probably figured this out already, but what I felt and didn't recognize until later was this:

"Everyone Was Playing Social Games With Me...!"

The experience felt so awful at the time, and the people seemed so difficult, mostly because I didn't know how to handle it when people played social games with me. The party probably wasn't as bad as I remember it, but my social skills were.

And I've still found people like this lurking almost everywhere in my life. At work, at the bars and clubs, at parties and social gatherings... even at family gatherings.

*** WAIT! In A Hurry? ***

Before you click away and think this is just another clever ad - take a quick look at what I'm going to cover in the rest of this letter:

1) How you can create REAL CHANGE in your social ability in just one week...

2) How you can detect social games in the first three sentences of an interaction...

3) Learn who the 3 Types of Dysfunctional Game Players are - and how to avoid them...

4) How to create DEEP rapport with people by staying out of dysfunctional routines that rob you of your energy...

5) How to avoid being manipulated and controlled - and I'll share with you how I do it...

6) Intrigued? Read on - you won’t be disappointed...!

 

I Think You've Felt This Before...

Maybe you've experienced something like my bad "party experience," or even situations like this:

  • - You go to a car dealership to shop around and you don't want to buy anything, but after several hours you find yourself driving home in a new car that you had no intention of buying. But he made it sound so good, and you got a SWEET deal... How did you fall for that...?

  • - You're in a meeting with a co-worker, and she starts to undermine your abilities and performance in the meeting, but you can't figure out how she's doing it because she's not directly insulting you. What kind of Game is she playing...?

  • - You're hanging out with your friends and someone makes a sly comment about you, and they all chuckle. You go along with it because you don't want to look like you're "uptight" or "un-cool." But somewhere deep inside, you know you were just put-down... Do you know how to deal with it...?

  • - You're at a family get-together, having dinner together, and your mother starts bugging you about your job, and starting to manipulate you with guilt and fear. As usual, you end up angry and blow up, and eventually you tell her to mind her own business. You end up looking like the jerk, but it was the way she did it that pushed your buttons... How do you stop this from happening...?

  • - You're out with a friend, and you see a couple of women you want to go talk to. Finally your friend drags you over and you start talking with them. The longer you talk, though, the more your friend seems to be the one getting the attention, and you start getting more and more quiet... How can you stop feeling socially awkward and stay in the conversation...?


group of people standing I'm pointing these situations out because I have been through ALL of them. And every time one of them happened, I thought of the perfect thing to say to handle the situation - only an hour too late.

Wouldn't it be great if you could think of the right thing to say in these situations to destroy the game-playing right away - instead of later as you're walking away...?

But This is the REALLY Scary Part...

The games other people play with us are NOTHING compared to the games we play on ourselves.

You see, there's two kinds of games going on out there - the games we play with other people, and the ones we play in our own heads.

You want an example of one that every guy can relate to?

You're talking with a woman at a bar, and the conversation is going well. She obviously needs to leave, and you know it's time to go for the close. So you ask her:

"Hey, can I have your phone number to talk with you again? Maybe go out for a bite sometime?"

She tells you she's not home that much or she would give it to you. "But give me your phone number and I'll call you," she says. You give her your number, even though you know at the back of your head that won't hear from her. You know - deep in your gut - that you needed to just push a little more for her number so that you could make that second meeting happen.

But you gave in and wussed out.

What happened?

This is a classic game that a lot of guys play inside their own heads where they will settle for giving their own phone number on the wishful thinking that they impressed her so much that she'll "definitely call!"

Even though we know that only 1 in 50 women ever will. (Probably much fewer...)

It's a way for us to let ourselves down easy, and not risk coming away with nothing at all for the time we spent talking to her. After all, there's still a chance she'll call... isn't there?

The skill of knowing how to handle your own internal games is something called "intra-personal skills," and it's something I will touch on again in a minute...

 

"Read My Lips - No More Games...!"

I'm sick of all the games.

I bet you are, too, aren't you? And you're absolutely right to be sick of them.

There's something else I want you to know that is VERY important...

How you handle the social games people play will determine:

    • How much money you will make at your job...

    • The quality of person you date ... and wind up marrying...

    • How much fun you have when you go out with friends...

    • The depth and intimacy you have in your relationships - with your family, your friends, and your lover...

    • Your overall level of happiness, security, and confidence that you experience every day...

 

Does that sound serious to you?

It should, because in nearly EVERY study performed on the happiest, the most successful, the most fulfilled people in the world, they all came back with the same finding, time after time after time.

This probably won't come as a surprise to you, but the discovery was this:

Your level of:

*Happiness*
*Financial success*
*Inner Fulfillment*
*Quality of Life*
and how attractive you are to the opposite sex
is DIRECTLY related to how strong your social skills are...

 

This has nothing to do with genetics, intelligence, or the forces that you might think of as being "out of your control..."

It really has nothing to do with upbringing or social status, either...

In nearly every person with any great level of success and fulfillment in their lives, the only thing that mattered was how well they managed the other people in their lives.

WOW...

I was blown away when I discovered that, and it really changed the way I looked at the world. For years I had believed that there were certain people who were just luckier than others, or just had the gift of "people skills..."

I thought that was why some guys just got more women than others, and why some women are more successful with men. They must be smarter or better looking, and that's why they got more dates than me.

I just accepted this belief that these people had something "special" - a natural talent that I didn't have.

Every time I saw my friends being more successful with socializing, being more popular with other people - and the more that I didn't make friends, or attract women, or make connections - the more I reinforced that false belief.

What I didn't realize was that I was creating this flawed foundation upon which my entire social life - and even my dating life - was being built. It was shaky and unsteady, and it couldn't possibly help me get the kind of lifestyle I wanted to live.

guy thinking Look, I have to admit something...

Until I was in my late 20s, I was socially CLUELESS.

I would go out and not have the faintest idea of how to handle a conversation when I got into it. I usually ended up talking about the one topic I knew the most.

You know how they say that you should "talk about what you know about"?

Well the problem was, the only topic I talked about was ME.

I would just yammer on and on about my life and all about me, not understanding how it was turning people off. Or I just wouldn't see what was going on in the conversation to figure out when I was being manipulated or de-valued.

I was making a lot of OTHER social mistakes, too, without even knowing it...

This lack of social skill and ability was killing a BIG part of my social life.

"The LESS success I got socially, the MORE it seemed to lower my self-esteem in other areas, too..."


And I would get VERY self-conscious in social situations, because I always felt like other people were getting the better of me, or that they were just waiting to use something I said against me in some way.

This might sound a little paranoid, but when you don't know how to handle people's games, you do start to get very defensive.

I even found myself becoming very negative about people in general. I started avoiding social situations because I didn't have a very good opinion of other people. And I didn't have a good opinion because of how I felt after talking with them or feeling like I was being "played."

For a while there I got pretty angry about it, too.

Maybe you've felt similar to this from time to time, too. That other people are just flaky, manipulative, and self-centered...?

And - even worse - you start to feel like you can't trust anybody, either... You want to, but you get a little frustrated because you can't figure out what's going on in their games.

Now that I'm older, I can see these situations for what they are, but I also realized this:

NO ONE out there shows you how to spot these social games and avoid them in the first place...

 

Really. Think about it:

point 1 Has anyone ever sat you down and explained how people try to manipulate you with guilt?
point 2 Has anyone ever showed you how other people can trick you into doing what THEY want you to do?
point 3 Has anyone ever explained to you how people use your insecurities and fears as a way to steer or control you?

Nope.

Yet it's being done to you all the time.

And usually you figure it out after they've gamed you - after they got you to do what they wanted, or after you say what they want to hear, or you've given them what they want...

Then the next time it happens, it's a slightly different situation, and you have to try and spot the game all over again - but you still don't have a plan or a technique to avoid playing it the next time it comes up.

And the worst part of this feeling I had about my social ability was that I had NO IDEA where or how to start turning it around. How do I learn these social skills that I saw other people using all the time...?

These people seemed like such master communicators with this GIFT for handling people. I had no idea where to start learning how they do it. After all, to get social skills and confidence, you need to hang out and talk to people... and I didn't have the confidence to go hang out and talk to people, so how could I ever get those skills...?

I was in a catch-22! It was a double-bind.

I had nowhere to get started, and I spent over ten years in this frustrated state.

I literally felt like a rat in one of those mazes, trying desperately to find the secret exit to get out. Because I knew if I could just get a look at the maze from above instead of being stuck IN it, I could find the solution.

Then I finally figured it out...

"The Solution is to Get Altitude and Perspective Over the Problem..."


I finally found a way to get myself on track, but it took a lot of work to figure it out - and it's not something I would ever want you to have to find by trial and error. I know it's not fun to beat your head against the wall just so it feels good when you stop.

The good thing is that you don't have to go through that pain.

If you're reading this right now, and you can identify with any of the situations I've just talked about, then what you're about to read next is probably going to change your life - forever.

I'm not kidding - it's THAT important.

You've probably experienced the frustration of being under the spell of a manipulative person at some point, haven't you?

It's disorienting and confusing, because you often don't know how they managed to do to you what they did, but you're left standing there, smacking your forehead and feeling like you've been had.

You didn't see it coming, did you?

I went through years and years of research trying figure out what was happening in these social situations. I read TONS of self-help books, and very few of them really had any real explanation about what was happening. Nothing I found helped me to figure out the "rules" of these games people play. I even went to seminars on group and relationship dynamics, but no luck.

In the end, I didn't get almost any of my strategies from those books or seminars.

I got these secrets from other PEOPLE.

I got very lucky to find some friends who I knew had some very powerful - and yet compassionate - methods for handling people who try to play games with you.

The funny thing was that when I pinned these "social naturals" down to help me out, most of them didn't have the slightest idea they were using social strategies like this to manage game players and social manipulators. When I sat them down and described some of the things I saw that they were doing, they were as amazed as I was.

You see, they had learned these things on an intuitive level that you and I never got to develop.

If someone has won a social game situation, or avoided a manipulator or a socially dangerous personality, they've used a technique or tactic to do it. A "technique" is just knowing the right thing to say at the right time.

But here's the best part:

If they have a method for handling social games, it can be broken down, taken apart, and you can learn it - just like any other skill out there.

AND you can use them to destroy the games you play in your own head, as well as the ones other people play with you.


"Here Are 3 Game Playing Personalities You Must Be Able To Spot Before They Manipulate You..."

As I studied these "naturals" at social strategy, there were three general types of people that these social experts all seemed to agree were the most dangerous - and the most important to spot before they game you. I want to tell you about all three right here so you can be on your guard...


GAME PLAYER 1: The Emotional Vampire

The Emotional Vampire

This is the person who we all know - usually a member of our family - that seems to just drain us dry of our energy. Every time you interact with them, your brain feels like you've just gone through a six hour final exam in algebra. You're sapped and depleted.

And you simply dread talking to them.

Pretty soon, you just avoid being around them at all, if you can help it.

Another part of you realizes that if you do avoid them, then THEY are the ones who are still winning the game, even without you around.

But a lot of the time, you can't avoid them because they're your co-workers, or your family...

Sometimes it's the person you're in a serious relationship with.

 

  • How do you spot this personality type?

Well, if you find yourself emotionally exhausted after dealing with a certain person in your life, and they leave you feeling worse than you did before you started talking with them, there's a good chance this person is an emotional vampire.

They steal your energy with any number of subtle maneuvers, most you don't notice until you're caught up in their game, and by then it's too late.

Also, if you find yourself dreading or resisting contact with this person because of the emotional drain they put on your batteries, chances are they're a vampire of some kind.

If you've ever seen a name come up on your phone and you found yourself turning off the ringer without answering it, and there was no reason you couldn't have taken the call - except maybe that sense of avoidance - well, you probably felt that person was going to be a potential vampire.

 

  • How do you deal with them?

Don't let them get their teeth in your neck!

The best defense here is a best offense, which is made up of my 3-part strategy:

1) Start by recognizing how they work, and being prepared for them up front.

You need to recognize their game before they blow the whistle and start the play. If you can't see what they're up to, you'll probably find yourself just scratching your head later trying to figure out how you got twisted around their finger...

2) Let them make their first move...

You can't just try to beat them to the punch, or the social player will just switch to a new tactic. You have to let them show you their cards, and then you can choose your own strategy.

3) And Then WATCH and MANAGE their play...

When they've revealed their cards, you can then use your own skills to create your own winning hand. (Okay I'm done with the game metaphors. Mostly.) Once you have them invested in their approach, you can then use it to steer the social dynamics toward a win-win finish.

That's the really special thing about what I teach you - you're going to learn how to get BOTH you and them to win!

What if you run into someone that doesn't just drain your energy, but they try to get something from you? This is the next kind of gamer...

 

GAME PLAYER 2: The Emotional Blackmailer

The Emotional Blackmailer

This type of social game player plays games as a form of extortion - to get favors, or any number of possible rewards they can pull from the situation.

We've all played this one at some point or another. In its most innocent form, you may have just wanted to get a little appreciation from someone in your life.

Have you ever done a favor and said, "Oh, it was nothing..." but what you really wanted to hear was how it was a big something to the other person?

That's a small kind of game. Innocent enough, but still a game.

Maybe you've met this kind of person:

  • The woman who gets you to do favors for her because you fear being rejected or emotionally abandoned...

  • The aunt that calls you up in the middle of the day to get your help running errands (when you already had things to do), but you can't refuse her because she would gossip to everyone else in your family about just how "thoughtless" and "heartless" you are...

  • The girlfriend who knows how to stroke your ego at the right time to make you feel manly one minute, but then she knows how to start withdrawing her approval and withholding affection because she knows you'll work hard and do whatever she wants to get it back...

  • The guy in a relationship that criticizes his girlfriend constantly to play on her insecurities and make sure she won't leave him...

  • The manager who knows exactly how to make you afraid that your performance appraisal will be bad if you don't help his team out on their 'special project'... After all, you don't want to appear uncooperative, do you?

All of these people are playing a powerful kind of emotional game with us - Blackmail. What they do, through some subtle - and sometimes not-so-subtle games is put us in a position where we are forced to do something to avoid a nasty embarrassment of some kind.

The reason they do this is sometimes people don't know the healthy way of getting what they want, so they use this game on us. They may not mean to play a game, but it comes out anyway.

 

  • How do you spot this personality type?

If you feel like you did something against your will to avoid a negative outcome - an outcome that the other person could control - then chances are you were blackmailed.

 

  • How do you deal with them?

The best offense is a great defense, and especially so with this type of game player.

Keep your eyes open, and don't let their actions fly under your radar. Very often, the emotional blackmailer loses their ability to control you or manipulate you when you expose their game out into the open.

But there's a particularly nasty game player that doesn't try to hide it. In fact this type flaunts their power over you. It's the...


GAME PLAYER 3: The Emotional Bully

The Emotional Bully

Just like the bully on the playground, this is the person that pushes you around and uses you to achieve their own goals and ends.

  • Maybe this is the person at work that pushes you into helping them for fear of their influence and power - or their ability to damage your career...

  • Maybe this is the guy you met while you're out at a club, and he intimidates you with his overbearing personality - or embarrasses you in public so that he can push you out of the picture, meet the woman you're with, and steal her for himself...

  • Maybe this is the woman that creates uncomfortable social situations - like crying fits or emotional tantrums - to get you to give in to her demands...

Quite honestly, these people can also be emotional terrorists.

Look, I know how charged a word that can be... Terrorist. Ouch.

I even debated mentioning it at all, but when I wrote it down, I knew that I was just telling the Truth.

(NOTE: When you're pushed into shame about your politically "INcorrect" views or comments, this is also a form of game playing and emotional manipulation that people will often use to control you.)

 

  • How do you spot this personality type?

The Emotional Bully is the kind of person can literally make your life a living hell with constant demands, emotional tirades, and total unpredictability. They leave you with a feeling of dread and anxiety 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

If you find yourself feeling this way, or pushed into doing things for another person frequently, you're probably in a relationship with a bully.

 

  • How do you deal with them?

If you sense that you might be dealing with an emotional bully, remember that these covert abusers are often very good at covering their tracks, so other people might not see what you are experiencing. The best way to start is to make a note of abusive incidents so that you can review them later on when your head is clear.

One thing that you must get in the habit of doing is to not let the emotions of a game playing situation run away from you so that you react badly and only make your situation worse.

But the good news is that the emotional bully responds to some very simple strategies that end their games FAST. They are, in fact, one of the easiest game players to deal with once you've identified them.


Is There Any Hope...?

What I thought was just one problem - not having social skills - was actually TWO problems in one.

The first problem was that I wasn't SEEING the games people were playing and what they were doing.

The second problem was that even if I did identify what they were doing, I didn't know what to do to avoid being manipulated.

I am excited to say that there is a happy ending to this story. For both me and you.

With all that I've told you, you might be thinking that everyone is out to get you, just waiting to make your life a living hell.

Don't get paranoid. That's not true at all. Most of the social gamers are not playing you intentionally, even when it seems like they are.

You see, these game-playing people didn't grow up with a big fat reference book on their shelf called "How to Play Games With People." They weren't taught how to play games...well, at least not directly.

We learned how to play games and manipulate like this from examples of other people. Usually by our families. We saw what worked and what didn't to get results, and we adopted those strategies.

Let's face it:

Any situation where you're being emotionally manipulated is an opportunity for you to shine - IF you know how to handle the game player, and WHAT TO SAY to end the confrontation correctly...

And the cool thing is...

"Now you can learn how to manage people like this - or avoid the games and manipulation entirely..."

Oh, and an even cooler part of this is that once you can spot the games other people are playing, you can also get rid of your games.

Ahem ...

Yes, you play games, too. We all do.

Once you accept this and learn the rules, the games aren't a problem anymore.

In fact, you'll find yourself looking forward to finding new and more intricate situations to figure out for yourself. It sounds funny, but you'll actually feel excited to go find new and interesting people to talk with and get to know, because you'll feel so confident and capable in your social ability.

It actually becomes FUN to play with people and get into social dynamics - no matter what kind, because you know that whatever someone can come up with, you have an arsenal of social skills of your own to handle them. And your social network will explode without you even realizing it.

And The Most Important Part is This...

When you have developed these social skills, you'll find that you can actually connect with people on a much deeper and more AUTHENTIC level than ever before.

I noticed that when I would talk to people, and I could get past the games, I was able to really establish an indestructible sense of rapport.

This happened with women, men - everyone I socialized with.

It got to the point where I had to start being very careful with this skill because people were forming some unhealthy dependencies on me. One woman even told me she felt like I understood her ten times more than her therapist...

Yikes!

You see, it's not just about dealing with all the people out there as potential enemies that you have to protect yourself against. I don't want you to think that I'm going to teach you how to be a fortress of solitude and lack that human compassion...

This is really about developing your vital social powers to the point where you can actually let down your guard and get REAL with people like you never thought possible.

Most people don't realize just how counter-productive and unnecessary their social games are, and they desperately need the other person to help them get past the games.

That person can be YOU.

 


Did You Know...?

  • If you're a social introvert, that does not mean you're shy and socially clueless... it just means that you get your energy from being alone rather than being in a big group of people. Unfortunately, being an introvert can lead to being social handicapped later on, so its important to understand how to work with your personality type...

  • The worst thing you can do to a socially manipulative person is expose them. If you do, most often they will find a way to retaliate, or cause you even more problems down the road. Which is why you must know the strategies I teach to handle them...

  • There are only 6 types of social game player personalities, and that's ALL. Once you learn what they are, you can avoid being manipulated or hurt, and you can almost always get to a winning solution for both of you...

  • If you understand these basic social skills, you create a "template" within your mind that allows you to handle any relationship - with any person...

 


"Here's Something Truly Unique And Incredible For Your Social Skills..."

Until now, there was NOWHERE you could go to learn social skills and abilities like the ones I've discussed here.

You either had "it" or you didn't... and if you didn't, the only way you could figure these skills out was to be as thick-skulled as I am and spend years figuring it all out on your own.

A moment ago I told you about how I managed to capture some of these "natural" people - the men and women that are socially successful in any situation. They are like chameleons, able to blend into any social situation and make it work for them.

Well, their knack for social power can also work for YOU.

I managed to capture their techniques and their social strategies for you to learn.

What I did was create a home-study audio program where you can learn these Power Social Skills in your car, on the bus, or anywhere you like.

I just put the finishing touches on a personal development program called the "Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics" Program - where I will teach you how to handle or destroy any social games, avoid manipulation, identify the dangerous personalities out there, and get REAL & AUTHENTIC connection with just about anyone.

This program is the very first of its kind, designed from the ground up to help you overcome any of your social limitations and pull you out into the world like never before.

This program was created and structured to help you go from wherever you may be in your social abilities - from poor to average, or even good social ability - all the the way to COMPLETE SOCIAL MASTERY.

Unfortunately, most men and women NEVER learn more than a small fraction of the information that I've put together in this program - if they learn any of it at all.


Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics

CLICK PLAY to Hear a Sample Audio Preview of the "Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics" Program.

 

Here Are The Specific Power Social Skills You're Going to Learn in This Program:


DISC 1 - Social Manipulation, Influence, & Games

  • Why you must unlock the hidden motivation behind social dynamics and social games - or you are doomed to repeat them over and over again...

  • Recognition Hunger - what it is - how you're secretly being manipulated by it all the time - And how to get to the core of this drive to de-fuse your potentially devastating social ticking time-bomb...

  • How "stroking" is used in conversation to influence you and steer your decision making - and how to spot it before someone brainwashes you into their goals...

  • The definition of what "social games" are, how they're structured, and how to prepare yourself to win in any social dynamics situation...

  • 4 Secret Reasons people play games with you - What are gamers trying to get from you?

  • Understanding "The Prize" in each social situation - and how to identify it as quickly as possible so you don't become the loser...

  • The 7 Hidden Emotions that sell you, manipulate you, and influence you - how they work in almost every social situation...

  • How to recognize when your built-in emotional triggers are being used, and how to put your "safety" on...

  • The 7 Natural Inclinations of humans that pull us into social dynamics and social games - You'll learn the shared weaknesses that drive us into other people's schemes...

  • The 3 Critical Questions to ask yourself to solve your manipulative dilemma - if you figure these out, no one can influence you against your will...

  • The 2 covert forms of guilt that people use on you to get what they want, and how to avoid them before you fall victim to one of the most powerful manipulative tactics...

  • The 2 Primary forms of mind control - and how they work on every person - even you...

  • The 6 weapons of persuasive influence - and how people, companies, and the media use these on you EVERY SINGLE DAY

  • How to use the stealth skill of "redefinition" to avoid being played by others...

  • How to get favors granted whenever you want - by knowing the right way to ask for them...

  • The 3 Secret Symbols of Authority that we look for when we decide to obey other people - and how you can be fooled into trusting the wrong authority...

  • The Hard-to-Get Gambit - why it works on you - why you love having options - and why those options trip you up before you realize what is happening...

  • How your mind secretly changes and twists reality to make decisions for you without your understanding or consent...

  • The secret reason why you believe certain kinds of gossip more than others - and how this is used as one of the most powerful manipulative strategies...

  • 49 Undisclosed Warning signs of potential mental, verbal, and physical abuse - so you can know if you're in a relationship that will serve you or hurt you over the long term - and so you can figure out quickly whether to stay or GET OUT...

  • AND MORE...

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DISC 2 - Quick Psychology

  • The 6-step Proven & Practical Method to develop Basic Social Skills - so that you can feel confident in any social situation and understand all the complicated games that are going on in every conversation...

  • How to demonstrate good listening ability - and the body language of strong social skills that you can use to impress others, establish strong rapport and connection with them, and get people feeling a sense of friendship with you...

  • The 5 Sources of Frustration in life and how we respond to them with social games...

  • The 2 Types of Coping and the 9 Forms of Defense Mechanisms that we instinctually use to create social games - and how you can cut these reactions off in others so that you don't have to get into manipulation...

  • How we resolve our internal conflicts, and how other people secretly use this knowledge to game us into doing what they want...

  • Learn how to understand problem personalities and how they strain our relationships - with friends, family, and especially with our intimate relationships...

  • How we unknowingly self-deceive and create games inside ourselves - How to identify the different kinds, and why you will probably never spot them on your own...

  • The 5 Secret Inner Games you MUST know and understand to avoid being gamed by other people...

  • The 3 areas of your life you must be on your guard for self-deception so you don't trick yourself into problems with other people...

  • The 3 Critical Questions you must ask yourself to determine if you're poisoning your ability to connect with others...

  • The ONE hidden inner game that people play that can lead to illness and suffering if it isn't controlled - HINT: Everyone does this!

  • The 2 Covert Forms of Social Aggression and how you can recognize the one form that sneaks by most peoples defenses and radar...

  • The Selective Inattention Game - how the game player passes right by the rules to get what they want from you...

  • The 3 Proven Power Strategies that covert aggressors use on you and how they work to confuse you and further their agenda...

  • How to handle extreme game-playing - emotional or verbal abuse that can threaten you mentally AND physically...

  • How to respond and handle any unhealthy verbal abuse to de-fuse the confrontation, shut down the game that's being played, and keep yourself emotionally and physically SAFE...

  • The 2 Zones where you will likely experience problems from emotional mistreatment and games - how to spot them and how to avoid the problems in advance...

  • The Hidden Penalties of handling the psychological pressure of an abusive relationship - how these high-stress situations take their toll on you mentally and physically...

  • Where to apply your focus to keep your self-esteem healthy and not let other people drag your self-confidence down into the dirt...

  • The 12 Secret Steps to dealing with abusive situations so you're not taken advantage of - and you don't wind up in an unhealthy spiral of co-dependence and cooperative abuse...

  • AND MORE...

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DISC 3 - Verbal & Emotional Abuse - Bullies

  • The Cloaked Emotional Abuse Tactics you must recognize or you risk creating dysfunctional relationships...

  • How to Find the Aggression Threshold - how people measure you up to see if you will take what they dish out...

  • How an Abuser stays out of sight and undiscovered - How they get into your life and under your skin without detection - and how you will spot their stealth tactics from now on...

  • The Concealed Helpless Defense an emotional abuser will use to get out of any trouble if they're spotted, and how you can hold them accountable...

  • Undermining relationships - The Animosity Tactic - how it works to erode the quality of your bond with others...

  • The Vicious Gossip strategy - and how it works to not only secretly undermine your social network,but destroy your career...!

  • The 7 Hidden Methods your social enemies use to gather dirt on you and learn what they need to cause you pain...

  • The strongest way to make a vicious rumor stick - The Humorous Payoff method that keeps you from defending yourself... This one is deadly and impossible to deal with unless you know their game...

  • The 3 Secret Tactics emotional abusers use to avoid blame and escape detection...

  • The reactions that you must not show in response to a social abuser game...

  • The "Helping" game disguise for playing and manipulation - how people win their games and get what they want by being the "good guy..."

  • Emotional manipulation in relationships - how your partner can use insecurity, threats, and fear to control you...

  • The healthy responses to games and how to use them to resolve situations quickly and effectively... and not sink to their level...

  • The Key Signal Words to watch for from emotional abusers...

  • How people abuse you with "logic" - especially in relationships - and how to keep a sane footing when you get pulled into an argument like this...

  • The most unhealthy state for the human mind you MUST avoid to create solid social skills...

  • How to identify verbal assault and how to handle it - from anyone - so that you come out on top...

  • The incongruous signals of a verbal abuser - how you can be confused and confabulated by these people...

  • The 6 Secret Forms of Verbal Abuse - How they sabotage relationships, destroy connection, divert and destroy communication, and play with your self-esteem...

  • The 4 Signs of Bullies - how to know if you're being pushed around by a strong personality - and how to push back...!

  • The 4 Primary Types of Bullies - and how to recognize them and deal with each of their style of games...

  • How to recognize game players and abusers ulterior motives on the job so that your career doesn't suffer from their games...

  • The 7 Bully Tactics you must watch out for - and how to recognize them...

  • AND MORE...

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DISC 4 - Manipulative People

  • How to recognize where assertive behavior becomes abusive behavior...

  • How manipulators keep us on the defense so that we can never get out of their games...

  • How to recognize an aggressive agenda from the innocent ones so you don't assume the worst of good people...

  • The difference between character and personality and what you should recognize about each so that you're not fooled by first impressions... and you know who to trust...

  • What reaction the manipulator needs from you to play their games - and how to avoid it so that you don't get caught up in their hidden gambits...

  • What a "neurotic" really is and how to recognize what they are trying to get from you...

  • The 6 Characteristics of Neurotics - how to recognize them - and how to avoid mistaking them for "character disorders..."

  • The 7 Types of problematic thinking and how we use it to play social games with people...

  • The 5 types of Aggressive Personalities - How to detect them and tell them apart - and how to handle them when you run into them - on the job, at home, or anywhere you go...

  • The Secret 2 Step Process that social manipulators use to avoid being caught - and pin the blame on others...

  • The investment principle that keeps you in unhealthy relationships FAR longer than you should... and if you learn this one rule, you'll save yourself years of pain in sick relationships...

  • What you don't know about "co-dependency" and the unknown facts you NEED to know that everyone else doesn't...

  • The 2 PRIMARY Relationship Personality Types - How this affects every romance you have - and which one of them are you?

  • How you become secretly "addicted" to people in your life - especially the person you may be romantically involved with...

  • Why we get defensive and play defensive games - and how to avoid this trap in conversation and arguments...

  • The "Good" type of Guilt, and how you can recognize it from the bad...

  • The 14 Hidden Games and Tactics of the social manipulator - how to distinguish them and destroy them...

  • The 5 Skills to guard yourself against victimization behaviors from anyone you may meet...

  • The 9 Tools of Personal Empowerment you must use to handle social manipulators and game players to ensure that you end things on a positive note...

  • The 4 Endings of ALL game types - and which outcome you must pursue at all costs...

  • AND MORE...

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DISC 5 - Mind Control & Emotional Vampires

  • What NLP - (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) is about and how it works in social interactions...

  • How marketers and stores influence you to buy more products and spend more money with them every time you shop...

  • How you've already been "programmed" to respond and react to others and their social games - and you aren't even aware of these secret "buttons..."

  • How to elicit someone's Hidden Values - the questioning process to find out what people are looking for, and how you can create that connection with them...

  • How people manipulate you with your fear of loss... and how to combat this so that you come from a place of abundance in mind and attitude...

  • The I-You Shift and how this secret technique is used to change your emotions and guide your experience...

  • The 7 Human Needs we all share that other people use to manipulate us - but you can use to connect you to other people more effectively...

  • AND MORE...

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DISC 6 - Emotional Vampires - Part II

  • The Game of Drain - how people sap you of your happiness, your energy, and your will - and how to prevent it from happening to you...

  • How to recognize a personality disorder when you encounter one in your friends, family, or romantic partner, and what you can do about it...

  • The 5 Special Categories of emotional vampires - If you can recognize these, you will never be maneuvered by them again...

  • The simple mistakes people make when they try to classify a personality problem - and how you can avoid it and figure people out faster...

  • The 3 Essential Attitudes for mentally healthy and mature adults - the ones to look for in others, and the ones to develop in yourself...

  • How to spot an emotional drainer and stop them before they get to you...

  • Ever meet someone that feels entitled to easy success? Ever meet someone who demands everything yesterday? Do you know someone who throws a tantrum when they don't get their own way? Learn how to handle these situations when they happen to you - because they WILL...

  • The 4 Hidden Warning Signs of mental manipulation and game playing that you must notice...

  • Learn the 4 Rules of Manipulation - and how you can avoid their (usually) unavoidable outcome...

  • The Clustering Strategy for recognizing and identifying the social game players...

  • The Warning Signs to identify the 5 Emotional Drainers - Key traits of these basic personality types that you must know to handle conversations and social situations without risk...

  • The Grooming Process - how people slowly change you over time - and how to stop them from using this insidious method on you...

  • Why men don't understand women - and how to finally "get it" when it comes to the opposite sex...

  • The undisclosed social game that is also the world's most powerful aphrodisiac - how we drive up attraction with the most unhealthy of games...

  • How exciting people keep cast their spell on us...

  • The 7 Basic Patterns of Persuasion - How to know when someone is trying to change your mind or control you - learn the blueprint patterns...

  • The 10 Secret Strategies to manage emotional vampires and avoid being put under the control of a social game player...

  • The Bully Rule that you were taught that is the absolute WRONG thing to do...

  • How to use the Pattern Interrupt to break the bully's game - every time...

  • The essential technique to handle a high-emotion situation without losing your cool - or losing the game!

  • Hidden verbal strategies for managing the game player and winning...

  • The vital step of de-fusing game playing that you must use - or you risk losing more than just the game!

  • The state of mind you must manage to function as a mature adult...

  • The type of emotional drainer that is the life of the party - and how you might miss their influence on you until it's too late...

  • The "Ham" Game - and how this vampire stirs up trouble on the job with you...

  • The one time you must NOT try to handle a social game...

  • The way to use redirection to your advantage and manage an emotional drainer...

  • How to win the "crying game..."

  • How to spot a "passive tantrum" when it happens and avoid the damaging after-effects...

  • Secondary Game - How to spot when someone hides a game WITHIN a game - this one is tricky and deadly...

  • The positive traits of the worst personalities so you don't get fooled again...

  • The most dangerous self-deception you will make about other people's intentions - and how you can avoid it from ever happening in the first place...

  • The 3 Secret Personality Qualities that will give you success in life...

  • The most lethal kind of relationship to get involved in - and if you're with one of these personality types - watch out!

  • The emotional control game of IMPLOSION - how it works, and how to stay out of the damage path

  • The type of personality type that is the easiest to manipulate - is it you?

  • The Fast-seduction Trap - How we're drawn into fast and emotionally unhealthy relationships...

  • The "Good Deed" you must never try to do for someone with problems - And why it's lethal to YOU...

  • The Disguised Seductive Personalities and why we are drawn in to them...

  • The personality types that are most creative and influential...

  • The 4 steps in "credit checking" crazy ideas to see if they're for real or a waste of time

  • The types of ideas you must beware of at all costs...

  • The most suspicious of all personality types - and what to watch out for if you're in a relationship with them...

  • Why you run into trust issues in your relationships - and other warning signals to watch out for...

  • The 6 Rules of Engagement for all dysfunctional personality games...

  • The 3 Layers of Personality classification - figure out what drives your friends and family - and you!

  • The 8 Warning signs of a draining personality that you must watch for

  • How a manipulator will inoculate you and trick you

  • The Confusion Strategy that game players and manipulators use to draw you into helping them

  • AND MORE...

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DISC 7 - Emotional Blackmail

  • The FOG of the manipulator - how people twist your emotions to get you to help them...

  • 9 Secret Manipulation Indicators - if you see one or more of these signs - watch out!

  • 4 Hidden Fears of the Blackmailer -Why they do what they do - and how you can help them stop...

  • 6 Indicators to watch for in emotional blackmail situations...

  • The unknown relationship blackmail games you must avoid to have healthy connections with your friends and family...

  • The Simple 4 step solution to deal with any emotional blackmail games so you don't get caught up in their games...

  • The 4 Secret Signs that someone is working with you and will solve the situation - and the 4 Signs that you're wasting your time...

  • The 4 Types of Emotional Blackmailers and the things they say that give them away...

  • How to remove guilt as a manipulating tool that people can use to influence you...

  • The power of the Spin Doctor and how they twist your reality around you...

  • The hidden social dynamic that you help to create - without even knowing you're doing this!

  • Hot-Button Theory and how you are manipulated by these automatic mechanisms even when you know about them...

  • How emotional game players "read" you and your personality to figure out where to play games...

  • Your 5 Vulnerable Emotional Zones - and how others use them for games and to get what they want...

  • How you create the emotional blackmail situations that spiral out of control..

  • Believe it or not, there's a Healthy Side to Emotional Blackmail - and you need to know how to use it for quality social interactions...

  • The 8 Test Questions to discover if you have the skills to resist emotional games and blackmail...

  • "C&D"- The 2 Secret Elements that make you unstable and vulnerable to manipulators...

  • How you undermine your integrity without even knowing it - and how to stop...

  • How to recognize when you're living "under the influence" - of an emotional blackmailer!

  • The 2 Proven Steps you can use that leave Emotional Blackmailers dead in their tracks

  • The False Self-Help Tip that you probably know about and use - but DOESN'T WORK... and how to fix it...

  • The 3 Step Process to handle all Emotional Game Situations...

  • What to say to evade the pressure of an emotional demand from someone in your family...

  • The Dangerous Emotional Trigger of all social pressure situations...

  • Why you don't react the right way to other people's games - and how you are pushed into dysfunctional reactions...

  • 8 Rules for Engagement for an Emotional Blackmailer - know the rules of their battles and you can both win...

  • AND MORE...

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DISC 8 - The Controller Personality

  • The Secret Vital Strategy for winning emotional confrontations to defuse and avoid blowups...

  • The Limp Effect - how to learn the 4 Hidden Warning signals that you are dealing with a controlling personality...

  • The difference between opinionated people and controllers - how to tell them apart so you don't make a social mistake...

  • The 3 Harmful Behaviors that controllers use - and the beliefs that drive them...

  • How Boundary Issues affect our social interactions - and how boundaries really work in the real world...

  • The 4 Primary Functions that connect you to your sense of "self" - and how you disconnect from yourself to become helpless...

  • Outside-in learning that reverses your confidence and belief in yourself - and how it works...

  • How you become disconnected from yourself and lose your certainty about your world and your choices...

  • The 11 Signs of Separation that threaten the controller - and how they keep you healthy...

  • The Deadly game of Confabulation - how you create problems in your life and hold yourself back from achievment - the deadliest self-confidence game of all...

  • How controllers influence other people to join them and help them in their dangerous games...

  • Defining Statements - what they are, how they sound, and how to respond to them...

  • The 6 Proven Power Strategies to evade the controller - and how you break free of their magic spell...

  • Learn your strongest ally and best of self-defense against all controllers and manipulators...

  • AND MORE...

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DISC 9 - Authentic Connection - Victimization

  • Why do we play social games? The underlying ultimate source and reason we play social games

  • How to determine how genuine your connection with someone else really is so you can create lasting trust and relationships

  • The Four Get & Protect Behaviors you use to keep yourself 'safe' - but you really are using to ruin your attractiveness to other people

  • How people use their body language to play games

  • The Battery Concept - How fulfilled you feel and how capable you are of connection is determined by this one crucial factor

  • How to get a million dollars of emotional money in the bank so that you can be completely comfortable in any social situation

  • How to make the miraculous change from Irritation to Calm Acceptance in just 60 seconds

  • The 2 behaviors that irritate you about other people and block your ability to control and defuse social problems

  • Learn the emotional "hunger" of the victim and how to stop them from consuming YOU!

  • The emotional trigger that turns people from friendly to selfish in a heartbeat

  • The 5 Common beliefs of the Victim

  • The "Follow the Chain" Exercise to get past your limiting pain and solve all your own games

  • The True nature of Addiction and how victims are really just addicts

  • The 5 Ways to spot and identify victims in your life and workplace

  • The 8 Rules of engagement with victims

  • AND MORE...

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DISC 10 - Social Games I

  • The 5-Step method to handle any social game you encounter...

  • How to avoid victimizing yourself...

  • The 21 Question Test to find out where you might be victimized in your life by your family, job, authority, organizations - and it is probably happening right now...

  • How to summon the courage you need in a group situation to stand up for yourself...

  • The 5 Secret Strategies to operate from personal power in your life and avoid being pulled into games...

  • How predators relate to emotional games and how they learn to read us and find our hidding hot-buttons...

  • Learn the 4 Hidden Intentions that drive social games - who uses them - and when you learn them you'll be able to manage any social conflict or tension situation...

  • The 7 Types of Games and Who Plays them...

  • And More Games Exposed ... see the list below...

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DISC 11 - Social Games II

  • The different types of parents you may have had - and how you learned their tricky social games...

  • How to recognize the hidden signs of a good liar and spot their games they use to evade detection...

  • How to spot a lie in process - and how to question a liar to expose it...

  • What NOT to do if you think you're being lied to - and this is the big mistake that most people make without realizing what they're doing...

  • The 7 Secret Manipulators that game players use to influence you...

  • How to recognize the 3 kinds of social teasing - and which one is most harmful to you...

  • The Apology Game: How to tell a GENUINE apology from the one that's a game...

  • The Alone Dilemma - When you understand this principle it will set you free from manipulation in relationships...

  • How you are robbed of your identity, your confidence, your happiness, and your self-esteem by this self-imposed game...

  • The smoke screen a social gamer uses to keep the focus off their behavior and keep you in the victim role...

  • The clever things people say to manipulate you by comparison games... and how to uncover them...

  • How your managers on the job manipulate you with "group logic"...

  • The Power Skill of Quiet Effectiveness - and how we're manipulated by our own accomplishments

  • Why you can never "demand" fair treatment - and what you need to do instead to get what you want from others...

  • The Immediate Recognition strategy to short-circuit any game or emotional reaction...

  • And More Games Exposed ... see the list below...

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DISC 12 - Social Games III

  • The killer technique to destroy any game and turn the game player around to your side...

  • How victims play the Game of Black & White...

  • The "Un-Winnable" terrain you must never explore with the game player...

  • And More Games Exposed ... see the list below...

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DISC 13 - Social Games IV

  • How to tell if you're afraid of success - or failure... and how to get past this stumbling block in your life...

  • 5 Secret Reasons you shy away from risk in your life and how to stop running...

  • Why people flake out on their plans with you for no reason - and how to protect yourself so that you're not the one being hurt by their inconsideration...

  • What to do when you're pulled into a forced choice so that you don't end up making a mistake you'll wind up regretting...

  • How to handle people when they try to play with you using teasing and mocking ploys...

  • How to handle people that go crazy on you - how to handle the Grenade Launcher...

  • More Games Exposed... see the list below...

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DISC 14 - Social Games V

  • The Emotional Limbo Game - How we get caught up in drama and emotional games by chasing our feelings - And the Proven 4 Step Process for breaking free of any emotional paralysis...

  • Strategies for handling games without reprisal, rejection, or losing friendships along the way...

  • More Games Exposed ... see the list below...

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DISC 15 - Sales Tricks - Conversational Strategies

  • How to spot the most underhanded and devious of all psychological games... and never fall for them...

  • How stores and marketers use hidden psychological games to get you to spend your money with them...
    • Including: The Hopscotch, the Boomerang, irrational pricing, the Jumble, the Mirror Effect, the Zones, the Tile Trick, the "Eye Level" trick, and more...

  • How grocery stores organize their products to get you to buy more...

  • The colors that make you buy more...

  • How advertisers secretly manipulate what you see to their advantage...

  • How companies herd and steer you to buy more than you intend to when you're in their stores...

  • The Unbelievable "Blockbuster" Trick that gets you to rent bad movies and make bad choices...

  • The Tricks of Casino Psychology - How the casinos use the latest psychological tricks on you - and how they manipulate your senses to get your money...
    • Including: The Funnel of Control, The Loose Slots ploy, and how these techniques are even used in retail stores!

  • Learn the Secret Tactics car salesmen use to play games with you...

  • The Bait & Switch - how unscrupulous stores get you to pay more...

  • The Hidden "Wear You Down" Game - how it works to trick you into buying - and why you won't walk away from them...

  • The Extended Warranty Game - How it works for you - or against you...

  • The Add-up Mistake Game - How sales people get you to agree and buy more than you want...

  • How car dealers use NLP to slip under your radar...

  • The Secret 7 Steps of Car Sales - How they work in a progression to get your money and in that car...

  • How to Combat the Negative Strategies with "White Hat" Social Skills...

  • 3 Proven Conversational Strategies - The essential tools you must have for authentic social interactions...

  • How men and women work against each other for their needs to get connection...

  • How to qualify your date to screen out the bad candidates - without the games...

  • The red flags to watch for in your social dynamics that tell you when to pay attention - something is not right!

  • How to handle a conversation when the other person is reluctant, resistant, or downright disrespectful... and how to come out with your own dignity intact...

  • Carlos' recommended books and resources for case studies and continued learning about social game playing...

  • AND MORE...

 

"Here Are The Kinds of Social Games You'll Learn About In This Social Dynamics Program:"

Games Lovers Play

Games Friends Play

Games Enemies Play

Games Families Play

Games Coworkers Play

Games From Authority
AND

Games You Play With Your Own Head - Self-esteem and Inner Games

You'll learn how to SEE the games when they appear, UNDERSTAND how the social dynamics work, KNOW what the other person is trying to accomplish with the game, have the RIGHT WORDS to say to them, and ACHIEVE REAL CONNECTION with them...

One thing I wanted when I was working hard on my social skills was a playbook that would just explain all the ways we play each 0ther when we're in conversations...

Or with our families...

Or at parties...

Or at work...

The list goes on and on.

But I couldn't find a book even remotely like this ANYWHERE. No self-help book had anything like it, or any of the tape and CD programs I got.

So I made one myself.

In fact, in my Power Social Skills program, I devoted 5 whole discs to cover all the tricky tactics and devices people will use to influence you and turn you around. When I let a few of my friends listen to them, every one of them said they would have paid anything to get this kind of priceless information.

I Expose Every One of These Social Games,
and Show You How to Win Every One of Them:

 

Salting the Jar Game

The Reject and Retreat Game

The Abusive Expectations Game

The Invalidation Abuse Games

The Minimizing Game

Trivializing Game

The Unpredictable Responses Game

Vilifying the Victim Game

Playing the Servant Game

Pretend Confusion game

The Disempowered Game

Let Me Quit First Game

The Approval Junkie Game

The Blame Game

The Atlas Syndrome

The "You're Too Happy" Game

The "You Made Me" Game

The "Redefine the Past" Game

"Yeah, I know but..." Game

The Withholding Game

The Boys & Girl Games

The You Monster Game

The complainer game

The "Being Offended" Game

The Paralysis game

The Argument Game

The Truth-Telling Game

The "I don't understand you" Game

The "Do it for me" Game

The Politeness Game

The Small Dig Game

The Start a Fight Game

The "He Hit Me First" Game

The Distorted Question Game

The "BUT" Game

The "People Should" Game

The "So now you're on their side...?" Game

The "Just Being Honest" Game

The "Idol Worship" Game

The Machine Gun Question Game

The Silence Your Dreams Game

The Condescending Apology Game

The Denial Game

The Explosion Game

The "How Are You" Game

The Collector Game

The Denying game

The Labeling Game

The Upset Game

Ask a question to be smart Game

Conspicuous Boredom Game

The Questioning Game

The Sympathy Game

The Demanding Love Game

The Pressure Game

The Comparison Game

The Rescuer Game

The Justification Game

The Deadly Why Game

The conditioned acceptance Game

The "I couldn't help it..." Game

The "You did WHAT...?" Game

The "But you said..." Game

The "How could you!" Game

The "Woe Is Me" Game

The Whining Game

The "It's Not Fair" Game

The Shark Attack Game

The Royal "We" Game

The Shifting Balance of Power Game

The Presupposition game

The Silence Game

The Manipulation Question Game

The Third-Man Game

The Quick Flip Game

The Don't Attack the Victim Game

The "Disappointed" Game

The "Forgiving" Game

The "Demand and Command" Game

The Go Away - Come Closer Game

The "I Know Your Script" Game

The Relentless Game

The Assumed Accomplishment Game

The Commandment Game

The Dominance Game

The Subtle Straw Man Game

The Eenie-Meenie Game

The Expert Game

The Fake emergency game

The proxy attacker Game

The Emotional Backlash Game

The Questioning Your Problem game

The Telling You Your Feelings Game

Defend the other person Game

Negating/denying/confusing Games

Sarcasm and Mocking Games

Guilt Trip Games

The Cliche Game

The Intolerance Game

The Intentional Eavesdrop Game

Winning the Silent Treatment Game

The Lying Game

The "I Love You" Game

The Excessive Gratitude Game

The Gift Giving Game

The "Label the Monster" Game

The Self Put-down Game

The "They say..." Game

The "Why can't you be more like..." Game

The Keep Up Appearances Game

The Liar Game

The Already Over Game

The "You Should Have..." Game

The "Why did you do it that way...?" Game

The "You said THIS before" Game

The "If Only..." Game

The Blame Game

The "How could you!" Game

The Talker Game

The Veiled Threat Game

Fear of Success Game

The Feathers Game

The Flake Game

The Flattery Game

The "Give Them a Choice" Game

The Go/No-Go Game

The Joker Game

The Prove Yourself Game

The Put You In Your Place Game

The Scrambled Defense Game

The Explanation Game

 

You've probably played more than your fair share of these social games with people before. You may have noticed their games, or more likely you didn't even see them coming.

You may have been manipulated by this game player, or you might have gotten out of the game by luck.

But one thing is for sure:

Once you've listened to this program, you won't be pulled into them again.

 

How You Can Know If This Program Is For You...

There's an important reason why I feel that EVERY person out there needs to have a copy of this program, and I'll come back to this in a moment.

First, you need to know if this is a program that will work specifically for YOU.

Read these questions - either aloud or in your head - and answer them. As you go through each one, you'll find yourself thinking about how your life will be different when you're able to solve these situations on your own...

    • Does it feel like when you meet people out in social situations that you have ALMOST NO ability to really connect with them? Or worse, they just don't seem to want to start a friendship of any kind with you?

    • Do you ever feel frustration when you're manipulated by other people, and knowing that if you could just figure out how to respond, you could avoid the pain and make things work better for you - AND for them?

    • Do you worry about getting too "close" to people, because the more that you open yourself up to them, the more power you could be giving them to possibly hurt you or manipulate you down the road?

    • Do you find yourself getting angry at someone you feel has manipulated you ... and the next minute you're the best of friends again when they figure out how to push your buttons and win you over again? You hate yourself for it, but you can't help it... they're just so good at playing you.

    • Do you ever experience sadness or frustration that you're not able to connect with people on a meaningful level that feels REAL to you?

    • Do you ever feel like some people are just "fake," even though you know there is something more going on under the surface - if you could just get past all their tricks and game-playing?

    • Do you ever feel slighted or hurt when you know other friends are getting called to participate in events, but you're not included on those plans, and you think that it might have something to do with how social you are?

    • Have you ever felt "lost" in a conversation, not knowing what happened - but that something DID happen and you missed out on the subtle clues?

    • Do you feel like you repeat your interactions with people again and again, not being able to figure out how to break the unhealthy cycle of arguments, games, or weirdness with them?

    • Do you feel like you're not on a level playing field with the opposite sex, or your family, or other people who play you all the time - and you feel at a constant disadvantage?

    • Do you often feel that a lot of the games people are playing can be pretty innocent at heart, even unintentional, but they could also be steered to a much better ending - helping both of you win the game?

    • Are you frequently caught off guard by questions from people, not sure how you should respond to them? Or if there's a meaning below the surface of what they're asking you?

    • Do you feel uncomfortable with confrontations and awkward social situations?

    • Do you feel like you could repair or improve relationships with people in your family - or even friends - if you could just figure out how to communicate better with them?

    • Would you like to get more romantic connections and dating opportunities?

    • Would you like to make more friends by having better social skills and more authentic interactions with other people?

    • Would you like to feel the happiness and confidence of being more skilled with social interactions, knowing that you can get the results you want?

    • Wouldn't it feel fantastic to get phone calls all the time from other people asking you to go out with them and enjoy new experiences, and have so many people calling that you have trouble finding the time to get together with them all?

The reason I asked about those situations is because I feel that most everyone - men and women- have had similar experiences or felt this way at some point or another.

 

"Sometimes we've felt the pain of these situations much more than we care to admit..."

People And each of those situations I just described just leads down a longer road of frustration and unhappiness when you realize that you're not getting any better at handling the game players and manipulators. And that you can't seem to connect with people the way you'd like.

These are also the problem situations that I personally had to overcome.

I isolated these particular situations because these are just some of the ones that we'll tackle in the Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics Program. We'll be able to resolve them and get you feeling comfortable in any social situation, confident that you will NOT be gamed ever again.

As I mentioned before, if you have social challenges of any kind, then they will always be the limiting part of your relationships with other people - just like the weakest link in a chain determines its strength.

If you don't build your relationships with other people on a strong foundation of powerful social skills, you'll always be trying to "catch up" to other people ... and you'll probably feel way behind in your ability to manage the games people try to pull you into.

This may seem like a huge area to tackle - your social skills - but fortunately when you address just a few key areas, as we will in this program, the rest will actually take care of themselves along the way.

If you found yourself relating to ANY of those situations, and if you've ever wanted to discover how to relate better to the important people in your life, then you owe it to yourself to try my Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics Program.

I really feel this is the most exciting thing I've created in the last ten years of helping people with their relationships and understanding interpersonal dynamics.

 

Here Are a Few Success Stories From My Students...

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CLICK to hear Scott: "I was searching for an answer... It was like you made it just for me... It's an amazing mindset to have... I see the world MUCH MUCH differently..."



"Power Social Skills is indeed his masterpiece... Fantastic program..."



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"I've been signing up to Carlos' programs for two years, and while they've all been excellent the 'Power Social Skills' is indeed his masterpiece. The thing about self-development is ultimately you can't develop yourself in a vacuum; we're here to make the best of ourselves, and that inevitably leads to interaction with the people we share our lives with and come into contact with generally. But how to compete and jossle with people without seeking to put anyone down or compromise yourself as a person? Carlos condenses hours and hours of study of psychology books, common sense insights and all-round observations of people into just over 15 hours of quite superb teachings. And I was blown away with the result. Now I don't need to study for my own Masters in Psychology; it's all here. I've never met the man, but I love where he's coming from. Thanks, Carlos - fantastic program!"

- Daniel


"This is an amazing resource... Carlos gives you a vast world of information..."



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"It's like having an audio encyclopedia filled with everything you need to know about every social interaction you will likely ever encounter... One 'a-ha' experience after another..."

- Robert Martin



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"I can go into any interaction now and not worry about being manipulated..."

- Chris H. - Louisiana

"It's happened to you... And, as much as I hate to admit it. It's happened to me, too.

For the last few days, you and your girl have been walking on eggshells. You had a conversation that left you at a standstill. You're both feeling angry and a bit frustrated...

She wants to go on a weekend trip with the girls to Vegas. Usually it would be no problem, but this weekend you have something planned...

You want to go skiing, or have a hot weekend at home... the list goes on and on... and on.

One day, she surprises you. She sends you flowers at work, signed with a card saying 'I love you!' You get home from work and find that she's made your favorite dinner. You sit on the couch enjoying a glass of wine, she starts to massage your shoulders... You're thinking how wonderful your girl is...

And, she has you - right where she wants you... Then she asks, 'Is it okay if I go away with the girls?'

You want to say 'No' but you can't. She's done all these nice things for you and you don't want to come off like a needy guy and you definitely don't want to come off like a jerk. So, instead you say...'Sure.'

And you HATE yourself for it. Why...?

Because you've been manipulated, duped... You've been 'played'.

I recently had the opportunity to learn about these social situations - these "social games" - through Carlos Xuma's audio program 'Power Social Skills'.

And I have to say that it's eye opening... maybe even life changing!

There's so much packed in this program...

From the psychology of the manipulator or the 'player' to the games being played on you to the rules of the games to effective strategies on how to survive the game...

If I'd had a program like this earlier in my life, I know that I'd have stronger, genuine and lasting connections in all my relationships. Relationships with family and friends and women that weren't based on false pretense, false hopes and expectations.

But, it's not too late. I listen to Carlos' words and advice on a daily basis - learning and growing. Applying all the useful information to every aspect of my life, whether it's dealing with my EX, my mother, my brother, or my boss at work. I try and turn every interaction, especially if it's negative, into a situation that I can walk away from like I wasn't being 'played...'

It's a program that is totally unique. There's NOTHING like it out there..."

- J.M.W., Foster City, CA

"Carlos Xuma's Power Social Skills Program is one of a kind. Finally, someone who has the skills and experience in Pickup, Alpha Confidence, and Business skills bridges the gap.

We all know that people play games and that social interactions can be weird, but often we don't know what to do about them. NOT ONE other Pick Up Guru offers a program of this kind.

The Social Skills Program was something I've been seeking forever, it seems. I can't recommend this Program enough to those of you who are looking for something different form the same old Pick Up Programs!"

- Keith - Reno, Nevada


"...I would like to say thank you very much for creating the Power Social skills program. I have only listened to the entire thing about twice, however, it has helped me incredibly in my attempts to relate to other people. It has really allowed me to have an easier time feeling out the intentions and the goals of other people, as well as to protect myself from people who try to violate my personal space and my psychic space...

I like how you speak in your programs. You seem to know just what sorts of things I have given priority to when it comes to interactions with other people."

- Jonathan G.


"I find your newest program 'Power Social Skills' unbelievable. I love how you talk about social skills on a general level rather than just pickup skills. Its really great!"

- R. N.


"Carlos, your teaching and philosophy are the future and the new generation for social success with everybody. You are like the new Godfather of social success...

You are way ahead of the GAME of our time. Even on the show “The Pick-Up Artist” Mystery mentioned it’s not about the women but about building a life; and you have always said that since the beginning.

In the future, once all these pickup arts have been exposed, the Alpha Man will be the next step to the new generation of seduction. Like you said, “Pickup is a dying art.” You are a pioneer and founding father of all Alpha Men. You are like the guru of guru...

I have recently bought your Power Social Skills. I LOVE IT!

I feel like I received a PhD for socialites. As a former nerd, you helped me catched up my years in social understanding that I neglected when younger and back in school because I was the good kid, the great student with a purpose in life striving for a great university... All nerds, dorks, and geeks, and people who will eventually run this planet NEED THIS PROGRAM!

This is a rare, one of a kind, gem treat, finally! No recycled materials regurgitated. I find the program to be a lot more engaging, more practical, and focused more on real life applications than just theories and fluffs. I love how you delineated with examples...

This is your best released program. It is new. It is refreshing. It is a topic that have not been dealt or explained. It is finally good to see something different and innovative, than the same old stuffs that have been around in the community.

Overall, you were the only one that took the initiative to create a program like this; nobody else had the solid balls. I give you infinite credits for that.

Keep up the awesome work you are doing Carlos!"

- Jason H.


"Hi Carlos, I just wanted to say that I've finished your Power Social Skills, and I am seriously impressed. It's your masterpiece, absolutely. I've signed up to your programs for over two years, and they've all been good... This time, however, I was blown away. This time I'm going to work and work and work these CDs, get them in my head, get them as second nature - or first nature, even better.

And I have several people to thank. Myself, for wanting the change and seeking to do something about it. And you, for doing something about making a difference out there. Well done, dude..."

- Daniel C.


"I've really enjoyed your Power Social Skills program. It's helped me realize a lot of manipulation tactics that I didn't even realize were manipulative, both in myself and others. It's helped me start building more healthy relationships with the people I interact with daily."

- Marshall, Washington DC


"Wow... you unlocked a lot of the mysteries of my behavior with this program..."

- Chris H., Louisiana


"Your new program is phenomenal... I can't believe you came out with a program like this... I love it. Its different and unique then every fu*** thing out there. ..."

- Ronnie


"Here is the bottom line: You can either spend 6 years of your life in school and umpteen thousands of dollars getting your Ph.D. in Interpersonal Psychology, or you can get POWER SOCIAL SKILLS by Carlos Xuma. The choice is yours."

- Don Diego Garcia at stylelife.com


"...If you want to take action and finally seize control of your life, little by little, Carlos Xuma has had experience with these kinds of hardships and determined to find out what makes social dynamics work. All his insight he has gathered in his helpful, magnificent program. It's obvious how much time he has invested in the program and its content.

Power Social Skills is not about trying to constantly outstage others or crushing them to demonstrate your superiority... Instead this program is about getting closer to people and achieving authentic connections. That's the core of making quality friends and becoming a social winner.

If you desire improving your social life and increasing your personal power, which is one huge part of your identity, Power Social Skills is the most important gift you can give yourself."

- J.A., Lahti, Finland


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"If I knew about Carlos Xuma's products earlier in my life, it would have saved me a lot of years... Trust me, Carlos has changed my life -- he can change yours too!"

- Oliver T., CEO - Captivate 2 Connect

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"... We're here to say with absolute CERTAINTY that you clearly deserve to be amongst the top 1% within the crowded triangle.... He always OVERDELIVERS in his dating programs and, long story short... his techniques WILL get you the results you want. Period."

- Simon Heong/David K- Publishers: Instant Approaching Secrets, ApproachingWomenTips.com
"Carlos Xuma is a man who has a clear passion for imparting the success with women he has experienced to other guys worldwide. He approaches his craft with immense integrity and a distinct style!"

- Scot McKay, X & Y Communications, DeserveWhatYouWant.com
"Carlos Xuma is the REAL DEAL! If you are serious about creating an extraordinary relationship. I highly recommend Carlos to any man who is ready to get the woman of his dreams. I love his game, it's 100% real."

- the dean, Dating4Men.com

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"Carlos Xuma is one of those rare guys in the field who actually GETS what interacting with women is all about. His advice goes beyond the pick-up lines and approach techniques..."

- James Brito, How to Be Irresistible to Women

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"Carlos Xuma is one of the few men in the 'seduction' or 'attraction' community who digs beneath the surface of passing attraction, and explores what it is to be a man who attracts women by virtue of his character and, consequently, the natural outward expression of high character..."

- Adam Gilad, CEO - net2bed.com
"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior. You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics - it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."

- Joe Quirk, Author of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"

  Press play to hear Dean...
"I've read every book and studied every system on dating and seduction. ... Xuma is the best there is at teaching men how to develop their 'inner game.' From there, he'll give you the complete set of tools for approaching women, and life, with absolute confidence and skill. If you're in this game to win it, these are the rules you need to learn."

- Dean Cortez, M.A.C.K. Tactics co-creator

  Press play to hear Rion...
"Carlos Xuma is on the 'dating forefront' of teaching guys in this area and he can help YOU fast-forward your own skills and confidence to get R.E.A.L. results with women."

- Rion Williams, abovethegame.net

  Press play to hear Jason...
"I was blown away by how much this guy knows... I highly recommend learning from this man..."

- Jason K.

  Press play to hear Mehow...
"Great stuff... Really awesome... this stuff will put all the elements together man... I highly recommend it..."

- Mehow, In-field Insider

  Press play to hear David Shade...
"I can tell you that Carlos lives what he teaches... He is genuine, authentic, and very much in tune with people..."

- David Shade, Masterful Lover

 

Why You Owe It To Yourself
And Every Person You Meet
For the Rest Of Your Life
To Learn These Power Social Skills Immediately...

What makes this program different?

Quite simply, it's the only one of its kind, as I'm sure you can tell by now. There has never been such a complete description of what all the dysfunctional social games we play are, why we do it, who the people are that play these games, and HOW to overcome and win them EVERY time.

Something I learned on this path to personal enrichment is that every skill - even social skills - can be learned if you just practice the right way.

You see, I think it's like this...

"People everywhere want to make more friends, have deeper and more meaningful relationships, and just get past all that weirdness that we tend to throw into our social lives..."

But no one teaches us these SKILLS.

They're all too happy to send us to therapists and psychologists to diagnose our problems, but they don't show us how to effectively deal with the people we CAN'T change... namely, everybody else!

I got sick of being manipulated and gamed by other people, and I finally found a way out of it, AND to create real connections that count with other people so that everyone wins.

Social games are just like a secret code people use to figure each other out, and the Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics Program is the universal decoder to get you past the games as fast as possible. Because as much as we would like to get rid of all games with people, they're here to stay.

But the person who understands the rules of the games can get to the finish line faster, and stay sane in the process.

Even if you are already good with people… you owe it to yourself to get this program… and learn how to create that powerful charisma that very, very few people will ever know how to do…


Here's How It All Works...

When you click on the order button below, you'll go to my secure order page for your credit card information.When you use my secure order form, you'll be able to download the bonuses right away, including the e-books as an Adobe Acrobat PDF file.

Your transaction is secure - using our secure servers, and your order information is sent using the latest SSL encryption technology to ensure complete and total privacy and security. The transaction will be discreetly billed to you as 'DD Publications' with our contact number included.

The whole process takes just a few minutes and you'll be reading your introductory e-book and watching your bonus seminar video in about 5 minutes.

When you get the CDs, take a listen through them right away. Just scan through it a couple times and note the sections that jump out at you immediately - then go back and listen to it from start to finish. There's a LOT of information here, but it's easy to listen to and digest.

Next, be sure to use the techniques I teach in the program, too. You'll notice a huge difference right away, and it will motivate you to move on to some of the other ideas.

Whatever happens, you'll use these CDs and the additional bonus materials as a reference library constantly as you're learning how to be more successful with your Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics Program.

 

Here's What You're Going to Get...

Here's the list of everything I include in the Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics Program:

Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics Program

  • Reference E-book with 38 pages of top-quality easy to read and understand notes. This book highlights all the points from the nearly 18 hours of content on these discs. You won't have to spend all your time taking notes, and you'll be able to refer to it over and over again. (Worth $79.97)

  • BONUS VIDEO SEMINAR - Social Games Live - 108 minutes of video - Carlos Xuma 's Games Seminar discussing social games, how they're played, and handling the women that play them. You're going to hear some very honest and powerful stories on this program, and you'll learn more solutions and insights to help you win the games. (Worth $89.97)

  • The audio CD program with Over 17 (SEVENTEEN) hours of coaching, tips, game descriptions, personality explanations, techniques, and strategies to get you confident and successful in any social situation. These discs cover specific topics on developing your Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics Program with everyone in your life, from your coworkers to your girlfriend to your family - I touch on everything. (Worth $397.97)

  • Access to my exclusive members ONLY Alpha Man Power Forum where you'll be able to exchange techniques, tips, and advice with the other Alpha Men on topics ranging from building your confidence, to how to meet women, to health and fitness. Every so often I will even post answers to questions and conduct surveys and polls. This is one community that you absolutely must be a part of! (Worth $49.97)

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"...one of the quickest ways to get yourself from beginner to black belt is to learn from the few teachers in our Community who have the rare combination of BEING a Complete Attractor, and then having the ability to TRANSMIT their self empowering skills into YOU.

One of those rare teachers is Carlos Xuma, who besides being a great and accomplished man who commands respect from men and women alike, is also a ridiculously meticulous thinker.

He's just organized ALL his thinking on how to master social situations of ANY kind and turn them into opportunities for you to attract the best women."

- Grant Adams, Internet Dating Advisor


You Will Be More Aware, More Confident, and More Socially Successful - Guaranteed!

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This is a bold promise to make, but I already know that you'll find the "Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics Program" the most fascinating, informative, and transformational skill-building program for handling people that you're going to find...

I want you to know what the Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics Program will do for you with every CD you listen to...

When you're learning my social methods, you're using the most intelligent, the most authentic, and the most effective real-world social talents you can find.

You'll not only be among the elite few people that understand this way of handling social game players and managing relationships, you'll also be creating authentic connections that most people will never achieve.

So why not move your game up to the next level, especially since...

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P.S. Every social strategy and technique that I share with you in this program is a PROVEN winner. I use every one of them personally in real-world situations, and I know that they will work for you, too, if you will just apply them.

Remember, you have a 100% satisfaction guarantee - if you're not happy, YOU DON'T PAY. And not only that, but I'll let you keep the bonus information as a way of saying "Thanks" for trying it. This is truly a 100% risk- free offer.


P.P.S. Remember that your social ability is the one thing that will determine your level of success in your lifetime. By developing Power Social Skills - Social Dynamics Program, you'll learn how to avoid emotional manipulators, put an end to the game playing, and feel confident meeting new people anywhere. AND you'll also be learning the core strengths that will help you find the woman of your dreams. Women size you up based on your social skills, and you must be ready when the time comes.

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